Most Men under perform in their love making because they really have no idea what women want in bed. For many men a woman's body is a mysterious thing and they are not taught how to please a woman, in other words what not to do, and what to do. It's no surprise then that many women rarely if ever reach orgasm at the hands of their partners.

To ensure you have the perfect relationship, it's imperative that men learn the secrets to what women want in bed. Unlike men, woman are not as visual, that is to say the sight of your penis alone is not going to turn her on. Women are much more stimulated by thoughts and emotions, but like men they also enjoy physicality as long as it comes handed in hand with those sexual thoughts and emotions.

Most often women do not like to be rushed in bed, foreplay is crucial as are feelings of intimacy. By saying feelings of intimacy I mean, your lady wants to be close to you, not just physically but emotionally, the more compatible you are in this sense, the better you will be in (and out of the bedroom).

Women are excited by fooling around and experimenting with sex, just like men. The one difference is they want it to happen in a natural way, rushing your partner into new actions like a blow job or different positions will only turn them off and make them reluctant to give it a go.

Make sure your love making is a pleasant experience, from start to finish, passionate kisses, reassuring words, caressing and fondling will have you both worked up and ready to try new things, try to introduce acts such as oral sex too quickly will put your partner off.

One thing all women enjoy is deep, penetration and prolonged sexual encounters, it helps a lot if your penis is a good size and you know how to use it. Being able to last a long time in bed will have her bragging to her friends about how wonderful you are in bed.