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The Tough Game Of Online Dating
October 30, 2009 | Leave a Comment
So you think online dating is easy? Just signup at some dating site, put some stuff into the profile and upload a random pic before waiting for the love-letters to roll in? Well, that's not how it works. If you want to be successful in online dating you got to know how to play the game. Let me tell you a little secret that most females keep from you guys: Women, young and old, blonde and brunette, beautiful and ugly, all like to be approached by a confident and interesting man. Yes, it's true. Confidence and Intelligence are much more important to a woman than the looks. That's true for internet dating, as well as for dating in the real world. But what game are we playing? Ah, it's online dating, so let's get back online. After signing up at a few online dating services, you will notice that it's no difference to a nightclub or party. There are much more man than woman and it's the men who are taking the initiative of making first contacts. So the first thing you need to do is to set-up a killer profile. Give as much information about yourself as you can without loosing too much of your privacy. Be creative. Upload a nice selection of pictures from yourself. Only upload the best pictures. Remember, woman want a confident man, so upload only pictures you feel confident with. Never forget…confident and interesting… .but that doesn't mean macho-behavior. Don't use your profile to let everyone know that you are superman. Woman don't like this. Try to create an interesting “image” of yourself with your profile. It might be a good idea to hire a professional photographer if you don't have any good pictures of yourself. It's true: A picture is worth a thousand words. Wouldn't it be cool to have many woman writing you messages and love-letters? Create a sophisticated profile and this might happen.Jan Weidenbach is the owner of www.punkz.fm. Join us and check out some punk rock on punkzFM! Publish your punk blog or check out some gothic videos.



