Aug
10
Grieving the Narcissist Relationship | ArticlesBase.com
August 10, 2009 | Leave a Comment
I am often asked how long it will take to get over a narcissist. Grieving the loss of a relationship with a narcissist is not the same as one with a healthy well-adjusted adult. The process has many stages and can only be understood by those who have been through it.
In a typical breakup, we grieve the loss of love, the pain of saying goodbye, the sadness of something wonderful ending, broken promises and halted dreams.
When grieving a narcissist, this pain is compounded by the reality that this person never loved you. He put on an act for a deliberate purpose: to seduce and control you. And it was for a specific reason: to ensure you would be present to stroke his ego and cater to his needs.
Jun
21
When the Wheels Come Off
June 21, 2009 | Leave a Comment
I grew up in the 70's and 80's when parents still told their kids to go outside and play. My friends and I would spend all day in the yard and when we got hot and sweaty enough we'd run to the back patio, open the water spigot on the side of the house and get down on our hands and knees so we could get low enough to turn our mouths up for a drink of water that splashed all over our faces and down our necks. In the evenings I remember seeing my parents shaking their heads as they watched the oil crises in the 1970's unfold on the nightly news. Gas prices skyrocketed to 73 cents a gallon! “Turn it off,” my mother would say to my dad. “Good grief! The wheel's are coming off but they make it sound like the world's ending.”
Jun
17
Can Online Dating Sites Give Me The Guy Of My Dreams?
June 17, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Author: Hary Davidson
When I first heard of online dating, I was very suspicious of the activities that go on in these online dating sites. I was of the view that these sites only catered to aimless flirting which ultimately resulted in one of the participants being hurt. My friend, Marie, changed my entire perception. She was intensely involved with a guy she had encountered in one of these online dating sites. I was very worried for her expecting the guy to dump her. But to my pleasant surprise, both of them tied the knot and are happily married. In fact, her husband literally dotes on her.
Dec
15
Old Vs New Work From Home Programs Which is Better?
December 15, 2008 | Leave a Comment
If you wish to know whether it is better joining new business opportunities rather than old established programs then let this advice help you choose
New Vs Old Business Opportunities
If you are an opportunity seeker looking to make money online with an eye on achieving the dream of working from home; you will be confused by the hundreds of different business opportunities being advertised. Many of them promise that they are brand new or have just been launched, being the ultimate solution to achieving a dream income. Others may have been around a while. The big question here is whether it is more sensible to choose new launch business opportunities or older well established business opportunities. Both may come with their advantages and disadvantages, but the real question is what is best for you?
Sep
27
Self Improvement: Self improvement advice free of charge.
September 27, 2008 | Leave a Comment
If only self improvement advice were free and scattered around
everywhere, then there will be no problem regarding life, happiness and
success. But then again, this is life. And it does not work that way.
If only self improvement advice were free and scattered around everywhere, then there will be no problem regarding life, happiness and success. But then again, this is life. And it does not work that way.
What would you do if you are trapped in an environment that you do not want to be in? What if you are sick and tired of your job?
What can we do to solve this dilemma?
It is possible to take inspired and motivated action to survive your present situation and live the life you always dreamed of.
Apr
25
Recognizing Your Spiritual Experiences
April 25, 2008 | Leave a Comment
All life has a direct link with the Creator. This demonstrates how very unique, special, and fortunate we all are. Life exists because God loves you and all life. Holy Spirit is at work in our everyday lives offering us divine love, guidance and protection. The question is, are we awake enough to recognize and accept these very special gifts? If we utilize the gifts, our life could be much happier, simpler, and easier.
Quote:
“Men are made for happiness, and
anyone who is completely happy has
a right to say to himself: “I am doing
God’s will on earth.”
Anton Chekhov
Story:
Recognizing a Past Life Experience
Apr
23
The Role Of A Life Coach
April 23, 2008 | Leave a Comment
Coaching is a modern and rapidly growing method for helping others to improve, develop, find personal success, achieve aims and manage life change and personal challenges. Life coaching is effective for all situations, whether in personal life, career, sales or corporate and business life. Coaching draws out rather than puts in. It develops rather than imposes.
So lets say you decide to try a session of life coaching just to see what it is all about. Here is a little of what you can expect.
The role of your life coach is to:
1. Support and encourage you. They are not there to impose their values on you. They are there to support and encourage you to reach your daily action steps and in time to see your long term goals fulfilled.
Apr
12
Deadline - A Major Variable To Getting You To Take Action
April 12, 2008 | Leave a Comment
Procrastination seems to be a companion for most of us. Given enough leeway, we will put most anything off that we can. This is especially true for the activities we deem difficult. It seems that human nature is to put things off until the last moment and then rush to get them done. In fact, there are many people who take tremendous pride in being able to get things done just in the nick of time.
Life has a way of delivering deadlines. April 15th is one that comes to mind. The bills that we have due each month all have a payment due date. Projects at work must be completed by the next meeting. And, of course, there is a time at which we must meet the in-laws. Unfortunately, a missed deadline has a variety of negative consequences. The pressure associated with this adds to the chaotic state that we tend to operate in under this scenario. This is when many of us experience overwhelm.
Apr
7
Forcing Your Goals Versus Empowering Your Dreams
April 7, 2008 | Leave a Comment
Many people understand the concept of setting goals in life to empower themselves. What most people don’t know is that goals require a constant stream of force behind them to keep them alive. In other words, you need to push them all the time to make them come true.What do I mean by force and push? To force something is to compel through pressure or necessity. To push a goal is to apply enough force to the goal to keep it fresh and empowered.
This constant pushing of your goal, while necessary, is also a detriment to effective manifestation of the goal itself. Goals are artificially created by the mind and backed up by concepts and beliefs in order for them to work. Take away the concepts and beliefs that give them the foundation to live and they will evaporate in no time.
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