Aug
24
Self Help: A Great Way To Go
August 24, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Your personal life is in shambles. Your husband cannot find the time to spend with you and your children never give a damn about what you say. You don`t feel like entering your own house. Everything you say or do seem to be wrong.
Well, if this is the situation, then you are desperately in need of self help. It seems rather easy to say that you need self help and quite another thing to avail it. It is not a medicine which can be downed with a glass of water and everything will be fine. In fact, you need a lot of discipline and determination to lead the life you want to. Only then you will not only have a husband who loves to talk to you but loving children who will also dote on you.
Aug
8
Why It Is Always Right To Do the Right Thing
August 8, 2009 | Leave a Comment
There were times in my life when I had precious little left but my integrity. Ive walked out of an impending business deal I desperately needed to make ends meet because I was told I had to pay a bribe for the deal to go through. I had a major contract sputter and die when I refused to remove all spiritual reference from my motivational material. It was not easy to walk away at those deals not knowing where I was going to get the money to keep going. But for the sake of my character and my future, it was the right thing to do!
Apr
23
Five Keys To Happiness
April 23, 2008 | Leave a Comment
The keys to happiness are not a secret, they are a process. To be happier, you must practice every day. The following five keys to happiness, if practiced daily, will lead you to find greater joy, success and fulfillment.
Savor Every Moment
To be in the moment is to live in the moment. Too often we are thinking ahead or looking ahead to the next event or circumstance in our lives, not appreciating the “here and now.” When we savor every moment, we are savoring the happiness in our lives.
By sharing the positive aspects of your life with others gives you a great opportunity to savor the moment. When something good happens to you, go ahead and celebrate the event. Tell others what has happened and the significant impact it has had on you. Sometimes we do not allow ourselves the forum to “brag on ourselves” or spread the good news of our life.
Apr
16
Use Hypnotic Conversation & Sway Others
April 16, 2008 | Leave a Comment
Imagine you were able to get what you wanted by properly conveying your desires to others simply by speaking to them. Can you imagine if you had the Rasputin touch? Do you think that being able to impact your listeners to see things as you do through only your words would be a valuable asset to have in your personal arsenal? Do you think it would be beneficial to you to be able to use language in a way that really drives home your idea or the meaning that you are wishing to share with someone else?
Apr
12
Feeling Emotional? Use Eft To Solve Your Problems
April 12, 2008 | Leave a Comment
Do you ever get out of bed with that feeling not being able to cope and negativity overwhelming you? Well, we all have our off days and that is normal.I don’t care how much self development work you do, you will always have to face some days when things are not going your way.
The story is rather different though when off days become a regular occurrence.
If you often start your day thinking, “Not another day I have to face, it is all too much”, you force yourself to get up, and are already thinking of the end of the day before it even started, you do have a problem controlling your emotions. This is a vicious circle and the more emotional you feel the less able your are to get a handle on life. It simply feels that sorting the smallest thing appears like climbing Mount Everest.
Apr
9
The Ancient Art Of Complication
April 9, 2008 | Leave a Comment
Do you ever marvel at some people’s uncanny ability to make the simple, complex?
The straight forward, anything but?
A ten minute task, a two week saga?
I meet these people every day.
Please stop sending them my way.
They are the woe-is-me brigade.
The Brothers (and Sisters) Grim.
(The real Brothers Grimm were two German dudes who published a bunch of folk stories and fairy tales about two hundred years ago… that’s for those of you who aren’t as old as me!!).
Yep, some people spend their whole lives making stuff complicated.
More complicated than it needs to be anyway.
Relationships… a constant soap-opera.
Career… messy and problematic.
Getting in shape… a perpetual roller-coaster of losing and gaining.
Finances… a daily money melodrama.
Apr
8
Control Anger By Changing Perspective
April 8, 2008 | Leave a Comment
“Achieving tranquility is a matter of simply changing perspectives…” Raeleen D’Agostino Mautner
How often have you experienced one of the following?
* Things seem to be going okay and then something happens that completely changes how you’re feeling and throws your life into some level of chaos or upset; or,
* You’re in a relatively good mood until something occurs or someone says something that instantly annoys or angers you and the good mood flies out the window.
Often it may seem that you’re stuck in a pattern where it only takes seconds for you to go from happy and peaceful to angry and stressed because of some event, whether it’s something that happens or some way that another person acts toward you.
Apr
3
Breaking Free From Our Self Imposed Prison
April 3, 2008 | Leave a Comment
I often come across business owners who desperately want to change their personal life, their business and their financial situation. But when they’re presented with the options to change, they come up with a multitude of reasons why they can’t. So, why is that?
Jalal ad-Din Rumi, a Persian Poet in the 1200’s once said “Why do you stay in prison when the door is so wide open”. Choosing not to change, when we want to change our life, is akin to choosing to stay in prison. But our choices are governed by something much bigger than we are consciously aware of. Our belief systems and how it causes resistance to change.
Mar
25
There Is No Way Out
March 25, 2008 | Leave a Comment
Can we Go there?
An experiment was done by some researchers; they brought some yellow and red fish then placed them in a rectangular fish bowl. The fish bowl was divided into two parts by a vertical rectangular glass plate so that the red fish could not mix with yellow ones. The fish were left for sometime then afterwards the glass plate was removed. Surprisingly even after the glass plate was removed red fish didn’t cross the border to the other side nor did the yellow fish cross it either.
So what happened? As you may have already guessed the fish formed a belief that they can never cross the boundary and the belief remained there even after the plate was removed!! So they kept thinking that they were trapped even after they were set free!!
Mar
20
Success Takes Flexibility
March 20, 2008 | Leave a Comment
In order to find success in our lives we need to pay attention to what is working and what is not. We need to find a way to do more of what is working in order to get more of what we want. This shift in position – to change you position, is the essence of flexibility.
A wise person once said, “If you always do what you’ve always, done, you’ll always get what your always got.” A variation of this statement provides a succinct definition for insanity as “the definition of insanity is doing what you always done, but expecting different results.” The point of both is that if you want to experience change in your life, then you have to be willing to change. Many times what keeps you from becoming flexible and open to change is you are afraid to move out of your comfort zone.
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